You raised some interesting points how we are here connecting on a platform and still make assumptions!

I am not a trekky so the first point was mute - for me. Your name is Yana Bostongirl so although your first name is European, I figured you were more a hybrid. Single is good - and more a people challenger than pleaser based on your writing - and that's a good thing! As for point 5 - absolutely! Love your writing! So inspirational Yana. Keep it coming :)