My ex did none of these - apart from making me feel inferior. I got the silent treatment that initially started at one day of not talking to transitioning to a month of passing ships and huge discomfort - until I caved. I would love to write about my experience but fear the backlash, even though he probably won't even read it let alone know I wrote it. His power still hangs over me and we have been divorced 10 years.

So glad you had the guts to write about yours to help others