Kasey, you have written words that I so resonate with - having been there,done that, had the affair, and now divorced - but everything you said is SO TRUE. And yet, we become the beatches because we had the affair. When people do have extra-marital relations one should always consider WHY... sometimes, it's in poor judgement, but other times it's for a very valid reason such as that desperate cry for love.

Thanks for being honest and sharing your thoughts. The reason I haven't is because I still feel guilty and should be over that by now....