Jim.
Oh My. My heart was pained by this story. Heartbreakingly, you parented all your three bairns in the same way, yet one fell into the hands of an influential peer group at a vulnerable time that ultimately changed his life.
As a parent, I know that your story could well be mine. Your words have reminded me how lucky I am and that we must never judge those with addictions because their stories are all different and often incredibly sad.
I admire you for putting this difficult time down in words. You will help countless families navigate this same reality and educate those with a negative mindset toward addiction. Hang in there, my friend!
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