I'm sorry but I have a really hard time reading this. SHE ruined YOUR life?! She is a child! I am a mom of three. Parenting can be hellish at the best of times. Little folks are 100% needy in the first few years of their life; they cannot do anything without someone else to do so for them. She didn't ask to be born. She was created and was born. I know the challenges associated with parenting; we enter this time with little to no knowledge and yet still expected to provide an income and survive ourselves. And our personal needs become remarkably obsolete when a little one enters our lives. Please consider how your negativity towards this helpless being influences her behaviour - even at such a tender age. They feed off negative energy.