I have never written about my marriage demise; I will confess the main reason is it does take two to tango - and, I don't want to air my dirty laundry at the expense of my kids Dad; I wasn't exactly angelic BUT I have my reasons why.

I have 3 amazing kids to this man and I can't ever regret marrying him simply because of that! But, interestingly, when we first separated, one of my kids gave me a whole bunch of shit. 'They' were mad I had destroyed the family unit - although it wasn't vocalized like that.

Now, 'they' get it. As I write this, I think I probs could circumnavigate the nitty gritty's but, I still have to think about it...!!